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Your Story: Lisa Appelo

June 2, 2015 by Kristi 40 Comments

great is thy faithfulnessThis Christian woman knows what God’s faithfulness looks like. Her life is a first-hand experience in trusting God. She understands what it means to rest at the throne of God for every day provisions, for the strength to carry on, for guidance in the midst of trial. Today’s encouraging guest post is written by the lovely Lisa Appelo. Stay tuned every 1st Tuesday for another Your Story. To God be the glory as you walk deeper with him.

 

 Because of the Lord’s great love we are not consumed, for his compassions never fail.They are new every morning; great is your faithfulness. Lamentations 3:22-23 NIV

I have long known that God is Faithful. I have sung hymns about it, taught my kids about it, memorized verses about it and seen it many times in my own life.

It’s one thing to read about God’s faithfulness or know it cerebrally. But it’s altogether amazing to learn that when life as you know it collapses, God is. In these last four years, we have seen God’s faithfulness over and over and over.

In 2011, our family was in a typically busy summer. My husband Dan loved his work. I stayed home with our seven children – five boys and two girls ranging from a 4-year-old to our 19-year-old college freshman. Though we had normal trials that come with raising children and meeting expenses and making a marriage, life was full and good.

Dan had asked me to go with him on a business trip to the Keys. I hesitated because it would leave only one day to get our whole family packed for a 50th anniversary trip to Maine for my parents. Lying in bed the night before the business trip, I sighed and told Dan I didn’t think I could make it.

Then I thought, the only thing your husband wants is for you to go on this trip. Just go.

And so I went and we had three days together, to reminisce, to stop at our favorite restaurants and to really say everything that needed to be said.

Arriving home, I went to bed early to prepare for a huge day of packing. Sometime in the early morning hours, I woke to Dan’s heavy breathing. I nudged him with my eyes still closed. “It’s just a nightmare, Hon. It’s okay.” A few seconds later, more awake, I realized this was not nightmare breathing. Flipping on the light, I saw instantly that something was very wrong.

As the 911 operator walked me through CPR, I thought surely I am not giving CPR to the man I just kissed goodnight. I told Dan we loved him in case they were the last words he might hear.

The paramedics took Dan to the hospital, still unconscious, and I went upstairs to see our children. My heart broke all over again. They were crying together in the boys’ bedroom. Everything in me wanted to reassure them that Daddy would be okay, but I couldn’t promise that. We prayed together, I hugged them and told them I would be home soon. It was about 4:30 a.m.

At the ER, I sensed that it didn’t look good. I wanted to hear the rushing of intense patient care, but it was quiet and still. The ER doctor soon came out and gently told me they had tried everything but had been unable to revive Dan.

I went back to see him one last time. To kiss him and memorize every feature of that face I had loved for 26 years. I slipped off his wedding ring and headed to my car, a mixture of fogged shock and raw pain.

In those moments I think I realized more about what marriage is than I ever had before. “They shall become one flesh.” We were one flesh alright and I felt like I had been ripped clean through with dangled threads hanging raw. Our hopes, dreams, arguments, make-ups, children, struggles, hurts and life together had stitched us into one. Now — tomorrow’s plans, next week’s list, our little family life with seven children we were raising– was shredded and would never be again.

What do you do when life as you know it collapses?

I have never asked God why but I sure have asked what now? What about my littlist girl that cried every day for over a year that she missed her daddy? What about our 6-year-old son who played just like neighborhood friends by day but cried himself to sleep each night? How was I going to raise three teen boys that needed their six-foot dad to help them navigate to manhood? How in the world was God going to fix eight broken hearts?

When you are at a place where you are utterly dependent on God, you are in the very best place.

Every single morning, I got by myself for time in the Word. It was my very food and I needed God so desperately. I’d write at the top of my journal “THIS IS TOO HARD, LORD. I CANNOT DO THIS.”

And every single day, God lifted my head. His Word encouraged and gave hope. I wrote our name by verses, cried through Psalms and was reminded that this? This was easy for God. He WOULD take care of us because He promised it.

God has so faithfully done that. I could tell you story after story of God’s practical provision for us, His encouragement, His guidance, His wisdom to me as a single mom. I could tell you BIG things He’s done — the kind that made me cry and my children gape in happy amazement. I can tell you about times when He has so personally met need that only He and I knew.

We’re almost four years out. The pain is less raw and we’ve slowly developed a new rhythm. Some days are easier; others we sink into deep missing. We will forever miss Dan but I’ve seen that God plants joy right in the midst of suffering.

And I know without hesitation that God is Faithful. It is his character and He can be nothing else.

 

    Lisa Appelo

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Lisa is a recent widow and now single mama to 7. She writes about God’s faithfulness in the hard and all of the crazy good lessons God is teaching at True and Faithful.

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Comments

  1. Christy Mobley says

    June 2, 2015 at 8:44 am

    Oh my goodness, what a beautiful and moving story!!! Two great take-aways: 1. It is such a good reminder to never ever take one single moment for granted. Love on each other. 2. God can lift us up out of the deepest despair and provide a way where there seems to be none.
    Thanks Lisa, and thank you Kristi.

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    • Lisa @TrueandFaithful.net says

      June 2, 2015 at 10:35 am

      Christy, yes to both. Who wants the suffering? But God is faithful right in the midst of it. Thank you for your kind comment.

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    • Kristi says

      June 2, 2015 at 12:28 pm

      Isn’t Lisa’s story a grabber for what God can do? Christy, it affected me in the same way. Thanks for stopping by.

      Reply
  2. Kelly Balarie (@kellybalarie) says

    June 2, 2015 at 9:59 am

    I am so thankful for this post. It makes me think of the things I don’t consider, all I take for granted and how great our God is. Powerful. Thank you for sharing this Kristi and Lisa. Cheering on today from the #RaRalinkup on Purposeful Faith.

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    • Lisa @TrueandFaithful.net says

      June 2, 2015 at 10:37 am

      Love your site and I appreciate your community Kelly! So grateful God is more powerful than anything life serves up.

      Reply
    • Kristi says

      June 2, 2015 at 12:29 pm

      The Lord’s power through Lisa’s story is evident, isn’t it, Kelly? I’m thankful she shared, too. Thanks for stopping by.

      Reply
  3. Abby McDonald says

    June 2, 2015 at 10:14 am

    Lisa, thank you for sharing your story here at Kristi’s place today. It is so inspiring to see a woman of God go through something so devastating and still continue seeking Him and praising Him. You are a light in this world. Blessings to you.

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    • Lisa @TrueandFaithful.net says

      June 2, 2015 at 10:38 am

      Truly, truly, God has lifted my head in the days when I could have cared less. My only task: stay in His Word. Thank you Abby!

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  4. Eris says

    June 2, 2015 at 10:25 am

    Amazing. I so needed to read this today. God is faithful.

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    • Lisa @TrueandFaithful.net says

      June 2, 2015 at 5:29 pm

      He is. I pray I know in my very marrow that He is trustworthy.

      Reply
  5. Holly Barrett says

    June 2, 2015 at 2:12 pm

    What a beautiful story, Lisa. So inspiring to read that you obeyed God’s nudging and went on that last trip with Dan. Kristi, thanks for sharing Lisa’s story and linking up at #TestimonyTuesday!

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    • Lisa @TrueandFaithful.net says

      June 2, 2015 at 5:31 pm

      I’m forever grateful for that nudge Holly. Even in the worst, we could see God’s hand and His timing all over.

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  6. Carmen Horne says

    June 2, 2015 at 2:13 pm

    I am speechless. My fella and I celebrate 38 years today and there are tears in my eyes. Tears because I understand the two being one and tears because I realize that marriage is a wonderful gift. Even in the hard times, it is a gift. Blessings Lisa. Thank you for sharing your heart, your pain and God’s love and provision. Thank you Kristi for sharing your page today. You have blessed me. <3 Sharing this on my FB page.

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    • Lisa @TrueandFaithful.net says

      June 2, 2015 at 5:33 pm

      Happy Anniversary! What a testimony to work through life together for 38 years. Many blessings to you two!

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  7. Crystal Storms says

    June 2, 2015 at 2:27 pm

    Lisa, I am without adequate words to express the shock of a world fallen apart, and the joy of God’s faithfulness. I pray I remember your testimony and seize the moments to love on those close to me and even more fully live my life with intention.

    Thank you, Kristi, for sharing at #IntentionalTuesday on Intentionally Pursuing.

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    • Lisa @TrueandFaithful.net says

      June 2, 2015 at 5:35 pm

      Thank you Crystal. It definitely reveals immediately what counts and what doesn’t.

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  8. Kamea Hope says

    June 2, 2015 at 5:40 pm

    This was so powerful! Thank you for your honest sharing. I am the mother of seven as well, and cannot imagine losing my best friend and having to deal with all those little broken hearts missing their daddy. And all while you were broken and hurting too. How wonderful that God has sustained you through these difficult years.
    May God richly bless you sweet one,
    Kamea

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    • Lisa @TrueandFaithful.net says

      June 2, 2015 at 7:32 pm

      There have been hard and messy days…especially as I learned how to parent without the humor and spine of my husband. But we continue to cling to God and ask for much grace from each other. Thank you, Kamea.

      Reply
  9. Kristine says

    June 3, 2015 at 5:39 am

    Wow, I am holding back the tears as I read this. What a demonstration of relying on God in a way that many of us cannot even comprehend. And what a beautiful gift – the time you and your husband had together, just the two of you. Thank you for sharing this. It shows me a deeper level of trust, provision, and hope. May God richly bless you and your precious kids.

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    • Lisa @TrueandFaithful.net says

      June 3, 2015 at 1:33 pm

      Yes, all of our years with him were a gift and I wouldn’t trade any of them even to avoid the hurt. Thank you for your sweet blessing.

      Reply
  10. Betsy de Cruz says

    June 3, 2015 at 8:25 am

    What a testimony, Lisa. I cannot begin to imagine what you have been through. How beautiful that God has shown Himself faithful and that YOU are standing on His faithfulness. Thank you for sharing your story. This makes me realize how important it is to appreciate my husband and family.

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    • Lisa @TrueandFaithful.net says

      June 3, 2015 at 1:34 pm

      Nothing else to stand on. God has been good and much of that goodness comes through human hands. <3 Thank you Betsy!

      Reply
  11. Suzie Eller says

    June 4, 2015 at 9:14 am

    Your courage astounds me. I’m so sorry for such a great loss. I’m grateful that you shared your story.

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    • Lisa @TrueandFaithful.net says

      June 5, 2015 at 8:31 am

      Thank you, Suzie. Kind words from a woman I so admire.

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  12. jamie says

    June 4, 2015 at 10:25 am

    I love her Kristi, When I get to read the story of God’s faithfulness in the life of another, some how I grow a little more. Let your faithfulness continue on us all Lord. I loved reading this story today. I’m praying for Lisa and her family. Thanks for sharing.

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    • Kristi says

      June 4, 2015 at 1:50 pm

      His faithfulness abounds in Lisa’s story, doesn’t it, Jamie? We can’t help but grow. Thanks for stopping in, my friend.

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    • Lisa @TrueandFaithful.net says

      June 5, 2015 at 8:32 am

      Thank you for prayers always. <3

      Reply
  13. Ann Gray says

    June 4, 2015 at 11:33 am

    Precious Lisa,

    Thank you for sharing your heart. You are touching so many of us with your honesty and your dependency on our Heavenly Father. John and I plan on celebrating our 50th this year, but we have learned to take nothing for granted. I am grateful for every day with him, and we both know that our lives are in God’s hands. You are a special blessing to all who know you and your sweet family. I love you and continue to pray for you and your family.

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    • Lisa @TrueandFaithful.net says

      June 5, 2015 at 8:28 am

      Thank you, Ann! Your 50th Anniversary is such a great achievement and gift! Blessings to you.

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  14. Winter says

    June 4, 2015 at 5:58 pm

    Wow, I had tears, such a powerful story of your faith in the Lord and His provision over your family. I can’t even begin to imagine how you put one foot in front of the other, other than through the strength of the Lord. Blessings to you and your family. Your neighbor at #livefree

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    • Lisa @TrueandFaithful.net says

      June 5, 2015 at 8:30 am

      Yes, Winter, you are so right. God has been the strength in my complete weakness. Still is.

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  15. Deb Wolf says

    June 5, 2015 at 11:14 am

    Lisa, thank you for sharing your story. I have so many thoughts running through my mind. I too have had “this is too hard Lord,” circumstances. What a blessing to know God and His faithfulness when I just wanted to pull the covers over my head and stay in bed. God’s blessings to you and your children. You are touching many hearts for His glory.

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    • Lisa @TrueandFaithful.net says

      June 5, 2015 at 4:12 pm

      I’m so sorry for the hard place in your life, Deb but grateful that you too can testify to God’s faithfulness. <3

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  16. Sarah Donegan says

    June 5, 2015 at 12:57 pm

    We so underestimate not only God’s power, but also His desire to see us through. Thank you for sharing about your beautiful family!

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    • Lisa @TrueandFaithful.net says

      June 5, 2015 at 4:12 pm

      I think that’s true Sarah. I think the humanity in us just always wants reassurance that God’s got this.

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  17. Bonnie Lyn Smith says

    June 5, 2015 at 5:21 pm

    Oh wow. This really is an amazing reminder that our worst fears could happen, but God is faithful because He can be nothing but. Thank you for encouraging all of our hearts and faith with such an incredible God Story. All of His stories are incredible, but praise God for the testimony on Lisa’s lips. So much power in that to spread hope, love, and the deep peace of Jesus to others. Loved this line—-> “When you are at a place where you are utterly dependent on God, you are in the very best place.” Amen!

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  18. Bonnie Lyn Smith says

    June 5, 2015 at 5:25 pm

    Also tweeting and sharing on my “Stories of Hope and Healing” Pinterest board.

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  19. Lisa @TrueandFaithful.net says

    June 5, 2015 at 9:33 pm

    “God is faithful because He can be nothing but.” Yes and amen. Thank you Bonnie Lyn Smith.

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  20. Kathryn Berrios says

    February 25, 2016 at 8:01 pm

    I am so sorry for your loss. I did not realize Dan passed away until I looked him up tonight after doing some research for my resume. Dan hired me for my first professional job after graduation subsequent to me meeting him at a college career fair when he was recruiting for CCP. He was such a good person and made a lasting impression upon me as a man who was foremost a Christian, husband and father. He spoke so highly of you & your beautiful family. I’m so deeply sorry upon learing about his passing. My prayers go out to all of you.

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  21. Lisa Appelo says

    February 26, 2016 at 12:27 am

    Thank you for your kind words, Kathryn. They mean the world that you would share your memories of him. We are forever grateful for our CCP family.

    Reply

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