Kristi Woods

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How to Give Thanks When You Don’t Feel Like It + FREE Summit Today

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Have you ever found yourself in a pothole of discouragement or disappointment, wondering how on earth to give thanks when you don’t feel like it?

A few Susie Sunshines fill my world. They smile and offer an upbeat attitude to every pitch and unexpected curve ball thrown at them. And gosh, I sometimes wish that were me–especially when disappointment or discouragement hits.

But it’s not.

God made me to be me. And He made you to be you, and goodness, we are works in progress. And His strength? It casts sunshine on our gray.

It’s normal to face disappointment or discouragement.

But whether we journey with it or Jesus makes a daily difference.

God hasn’t called us to offer discouraging remarks or disappointing reports. He has called us to sit, stand, and walk with thanksgiving, even in tough circumstances.

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Sounds easy. Check. Reality, however, assures a battle of God-sized proportions, so why not battle with His strength?

Not long ago, I faced a ripple of disappointment. Soon after, a huge, ‘ol wave of discouragement hit. Truth be told, those are the times when I feel weak, lackluster, embarrassed, even “less than.” I consider pulling into my shell, shying away from the solution and straight into the pity of my problem.

It’s a battle, and who wants to broadcast it to the world that we’re struggling? I’ve learned, however, that pulling the covers off darkness is the best way to begin the battle against it. And often, that means allowing others to come alongside us in prayer and support.

(Read more about that lesson here.) 

So I pulled off those covers and shared the struggle with a circle of girlfriends. They stood alongside me with encouragement and prayer. Even more so, God surrounded us with victory.

That’s our Father.

God grants us victory with and through His strength.

I’m convinced thanksgiving is one of those strong devices the Lord offers for overcoming disappointment and discouragement. In the midst of my bout, He offered a new glimpse on how to give thanksgiving when the “feels” simply remain absent.

Give thanks backwards.

Huh?

Backwards thanks.

When we look backward, we find thankfulness.

In other words, what one thing, person, or circumstance from yesterday are you thankful for?

Then repeat it tomorrow.

And the next day. And the next day. And the next.

It works.

Why?

There’s always something to thank God for. (Gosh, that sounds like something our moms would say to us, doesn’t it?!)

So today, my friend, I encourage you to grab yesterday’s opportunity for thanks. Set it as an offering to God, allowing thanks to glorify Him and grow you.

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Wiggle past that disappointment and discouragement attempting to wrestle you straight to the ground, and pick up the provisions of God. I’m right there with you, wiggling, too.

Action Steps:

I started giving thanks backwards recently. The Lord used those thank offerings to help me step up and out of the wave of discouragement. Will you join me, putting action behind the unction?

  • Note your backward thanks in a journal.

  • Tell someone.

  • Recite it out loud to God (“God, I thank you for…”)

  • List your thanks in the comments below.

  • Jot it on a paper and put it in a coffee mug or container.

However we handle it, God instilled in us the ability to simply give thanks…even when we don’t feel like it. And goodness, it proves wonders for a girl’s heart.

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3 Ways to Keep the Spirit of Thanksgiving Alive All Year

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“Keep Daddy safe.” My son prayed the prayer with vigilance.

Day after day, week after week, and month after month he fashioned and offered it. His little two year-old lips sought the face of his heavenly Father for the safety of his earthly father.

The prayer was answered in precisely the way my son hoped. Eight months after his departure, my husband arrived home safely. But what happened next caught me by surprise.

Shortly after my husband’s homecoming, we sat at the dinner table, our heads bowed in prayer. When my son’s turn came to offer his petition, I fully expected to hear the familiar prayer. After all, he was only two years old. But that’s not what happened.

“Thank you, God, for keeping Daddy safe,” my son offered. His gentle words rang with sincerity.

Without coaching, Caleb turned his prayer into an offering of thanksgiving – straight to God Almighty. And it was beautiful.

Although my ears strained to hear the syllables, it seemed as though a megaphone was pressed directly from my little boy’s mouth straight to my heart. I heard the lesson clearly: don’t forget to offer thanksgiving.

I don’t know about you, but I’ll easily offer a prayer soaked with need to my Father. I’ll offer it in the shower, in the car, at the table, and even via text exchange with a friend. But my son’s beautiful words that day convicted me about another part of communion with our Father: thanksgiving.

It’s easy to offer a prayer, but sometimes vigilance with thanksgiving is forgotten, especially in today’s fast-paced world. I stood convicted.

My little guy’s words were a lesson and a wake-up call. They were a wonderful example of Colossians 4:2 put into action.

 

Continue steadfastly in prayer, watching therein with thanksgiving; Col. 4:2 WEB Click To Tweet

 

This season we’re readying for the Thanksgiving holiday. We’re also in a spiritual season ripe for offering thanks. Here are three ways for us to remain vigilant with thanksgiving throughout the year:

 

1. Remember Our Salvation

 

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It’s easy to join the hustle and bustle of every day life, even as Christians. Sometimes our busy schedules, even those clad with good works, crowd time away from simply remembering our salvation.

Something powerful happens, however, when we stop and soak in thankfulness for Jesus’ sacrifice and the forever love offered from Above. Imagine a Savior who offered his life even when our sins clouded life’s picture dark. No resentment, no “keeping tabs”, no “hey, this is not my gig”. Jesus simply loved and gave  – and continues to do so.

And what about heaven? It’s a part of God’s picture for life, and it’s the place our Father has prepared for us. It’s void of tears and hurts. God’s ultimate destination for us overflows with love and good.

When I consider my awaiting home in heaven, it’s easy to offer an audible, “Thank you, Jesus, for your sacrifice. Thank you for forgiving my sins. Thank you for heaven. I look forward to life there with you.”

What if we remembered our salvation and gave Jesus thanks each day?

 

2. Look Around at Creation

 

God saw everything that he had made, and, behold, it was very good... Gen. 1:31 WEB Click To Tweet

 

Our God’s creation surrounds us. He deemed it – the animals and sky, the landscape and humans – as very good. All are opportunity for thanksgiving.

Sometimes when I’m driving, I’ll look across the landscape and blurt a bit of gratitude for the view flowing past. After all, who doesn’t like a warm, brilliant sun or the clear blue of an endless sky? There always seems to be something our God created that’s worthy of thanks.

But God’s good creation doesn’t stop with the beautiful landscape. It also includes people – both friend and foe. We have a list of many, ready and waiting for thanksgiving.

What person or thing in God’s creation awaits our acknowledgement today?

 

3. Review Our Prayer List and Make a New One

Psalm 9:1 encourages a look around at the deeds God has done.

 

I will give thanks to Yahweh with my whole heart. I will tell of all your marvelous works. PS 9:1 WEB Click To Tweet

 

Many of us have prayer lists or regular requests like my little Caleb did. Some are scribbled in a notebook while others are the virtual version. Those lists are ripe, awaiting our review. As we near the end of the year, why not glance over those lists and offer God thanksgiving?

But we don’t have to live in the past only. What about the to-do list for today and upcoming days? What if we added a line or two for vigilance sake? A simple line for thanksgiving could do wonders.

So in this season, as Thanksgiving approaches, grab Colossians 4:2 with might. Stand vigilant with thanksgiving today and beyond.

 

3 Ways to Keep the Spirit of Thanksgiving Alive All Year first appeared on iBelieve.com, November 21, 2016.